it's a gosh darn arms race
Lady Co-worker: Could you believe that guy? He would just leer at every women who walked by.
Playasinmar: All guys do that.
Lady: Not my husband!
Playa: Sure he does. You just trained him to hide it.
Lady: Men are perverts.
Playa: No they aren’t.* Men are men. That’s one of the things men do.
Lady: You don’t do that.
Playa: Yes, well [ahem] I’m well-mannered.
*Well, maybe they are. Maybe. :)